Day 32 – Sunday 29th May
The day of the complaint
Marie was on early shift today and she took the opportunity to lodge an informal complaint with the Head Nurse on the Ward about the level of Karen’s care.
According to Marie, the Head Nurse concerned was very attentive and sincerely wanted to make things better and assured us he would have words with the main individual. Since this, Marie and I both felt that the care for Karen has definately improved. Let’s hope it is a sustained improvement.
Visit from ICU Outreach Staff
The Intensive Care Unit have a group of nurses who go out onto the wards to follow the Critical Care Patients for a few weeks after they have been in ICU. They visited Karen today, and it was Karen’s opportunity (with Marie assisting) to explain how poor her care had been at Ward 3. At times, she got upset during the conversation. They will take this back to the ICU ward so we may see some results from that.
General Health
kp was still lethargic today and hasn’t eaten as well as she could have. When we try and encourage her to eat, she reasserts that she isn’t a 5 year old. I won’t be pushing on this front again and may need to speak to a doctor/nurse to get them to have a word.
One of Karen’s wounds on the bottom of her back is weeping badly. It needed to be redressed twice today. This will not have been helped by the lack of turns she has been given. A new bed is on order for kp which will help alleviate bed sores, by changing pressure points every so often. She had one of these in ICU and it worked very well.
Visitors
Kevin visited today. He is the driver of the car that Karen was in. Karen was very pleased to see Kevin and vice-versa from what Marie told me. He will be off work for a few more months as his collarbone and ribs fix themselves. Kevin has some photos of the cars involved in the crash. Hopefully on his next visit, he will bring these and if I can I will post them on the blogsite.
Jane and Guy (my sister and brother-in-law) visited also. Karen really enjoyed their company and they brought with them a video of their 3 year old daughter (my niece) saying “Hello Karen. Hope you get well soon. I love you.” It was a bit prompted but this made it all the more funny and good to watch. We got a few smiles from kp out of that.
Karen then wanted to call her great-niece and nephew, which she promptly did. They were thrilled to hear from her.
Loves from Michelle
Karen was in need of a few hugs today. She didn’t particularly get upset but just wanted hugs. Karen doesn’t do hugs as a rule, and she is very choosy who she hugs, and Michelle was the chosen one today.
Not really much else to say today. The big fear for Karen and myself was that she would have another night like last night. To preempt this, Karen was put on a stronger sleeping tablet (Diazopam). I reassured her that this should do the trick and there was no need to be frightened etc….I stayed until she fell asleep and for a bit after. She was very asleep when I left, so, fingers crossed, she will get a really good night’s sleep.
Request for Visitors
Today was a good day overall and one of the reasons for this was a different set of visitors. So, if you would like to visit Karen, please contact Marie on 01642-284812 or 07961-346149 to arrange a time. We would love to see you. If Marie doesn’t answer, leave a message saying who you are, what time etc….
Boggett
Whilst I was trying to get Karen off to sleep tonight, she asked me to talk to her about nice things. I did the dogs, the garden, holidays. She started to get very sleepy and became quieter in voice and asked for me to tell her some more nice things. So I came up with some more. She became even more asleep. One of the last things she asked for was
kp:- Tell me some things about the Boggett.
She meant the blog !
Soon after, she was VERY asleep and didn’t stir whilst I made a racket arranging her buzzer, water etc…
Sleep well my love
dp
xxxxx
May 30th, 2005 at 2:41 pm
Well done to Marie for getting the ball rolling.Told you Karen Superdavid and sidekick Marie would sort it out. You will soon be as snug as a bug in a rug if they have anything to do with it.
Telling off time-;you need to eat to keep your strength up Karen now is not the time to diet.You would be the first one to tell someone who was ill that they need to eat, so come on kp keep on trying.Hope you are eating well David because you need all your strength for what is yet to come.
Now listen both of you this is granny margo speaking so you better take note.Margo
May 30th, 2005 at 5:05 pm
Hello Karen, (4.30 Monday)
so I here you got some drugs, told you about Diazipan (if its the same thing or not – doesn’t matter) – sounds like it worked. All I can say is, I don’t want Irene telling me (in her telling off voice) “Well HER face is no bigger than a CUP!!!” (David you may need to repeat it and really concentrate on the HER and CUP!) and I know you understand what I mean by that comment Karen, how we laughed. Anyway, these days my face looks bigger than a pint jug! Not too sure which Irene prefers.
So listen I sent a text to Queen number 2 (Jane) whilst she was lounging on the boat on Satuday, I wrote telling her I’d bought you and David a surprise present, so she i.e. Queen number 2 (cos you are obviously Queen number 1)sends text back and says “thanks!” i.e. she thought I’d bought the present for her only, so then I had to go and buy one for Queen number 2 and then I thought bugger this I’m buying one for me too! Can’t say anymore or I’ll let the surprise out of the bag, Queen number 2 will be in BIG trouble if she tells you before I get there. Having said that I can’t guarantee that the surprise will arrive as its got an ocean to travel in less than a week, but here’s hoping. Camcorder or camera will be required David, if it all goes to plan next Friday. At this point I know Queen number 1 (Karen) thinks I’m writing a load of rubbish, so I’ll sign off now and “stop going on!”
Thinking of you, as always.
XX Veronicia (Ronnie) (vdfromboro)
P.S David hope you are feeling better
P.S Karen see you on Friday – and I DO NOT WANT TO BE THE ONE WHO TELLS IRENE YOUR FACE IS NO BIGGER THAN A CUP – OK?
May 30th, 2005 at 10:35 pm
Hi Karen
Just a quick note to tell you that Guy and I really enjoyed seeing you yesterday, its asolutely marvellous to see the difference in three weeks. You are doing brilliantly – keep it up.
We will be up again as soon as we can arrange babysitters !!!
Lots of Love
Jane & Guy